Im looking for a webmaster (adult site) who would be interested in trading traffic.?

ther's a million of them out there and you're a rookie
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You should try video sites like redtube.com. They allow you to post content and can give you much need exposure. You need to talk to other adult webmaster's and ask for help. The worst they'll say is no but often times they'll be willing to assist you.
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adultfriendfinder.com and adbrit allow google like advertising for adult content
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Follow following step to get NO1 on google

1. Define meta , keyword and title
2. Make all page w3c valid.
3. Submit your site to google
4. Submit your Business information in Google Local and other Business Directory.
5. Add your Business address and contact information in google map.
6. write article about your business purpose, business strategy, and goals then post in forms/blogs.
7. make press release.

That procedure called SEO.
Look at my Business Website : http://www.phppicture.com/
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I have a great idea!

visit http//freewebsitetraffic.tv

that website will show you how to get tons of traffic everyday
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You can use 2 methods,1)SEO and 2) PPC
1) SEO: Search engine optimization will optimize your site with on-page and off-page factors,these factors will help you drive quality targeted traffic and will feature your site in search listings.
2) PPC:This is a paid version where you can create an account in Adwords,Yahoo search marketing etc where a PPc expert will create ads depending on the keywords.These ads will feature in sponsor listing.This method can generate instant traffic.
There are very few companies on which you can trust on to get the work done in an affordable manner.
I suggest you to hire an SEO/PPC expert to get your job done.
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http://www.trafficassistants.com/