Should I be upset at husband’s email about porn?

oh my god. your feelings are totally justified! the email doesnt say if he was in the videos or not but that may be a possibility!
he has not told you about this which is lying and he has done it very sneaky!
you get cross with him - he deserves everything he gets! he may be having an affair with these women ??…

…think about it x
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You feel betrayed and should. But you did give him permission. This is the internet porn world, and that is what you said was ok.

Should you put a stop to it? YES. If you plan to have an open, honest and loving relationship with your husband then faithfulness and trust are top issues.

Good Luck.
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Overreacting, it;s porn which means it’s nothing more than unrealistic fantasy. Most men like porn but i wouldn’t stress it too much.

Also, hacking into his email is very BIG, would you like it done to you. You you go looking for something you’ll always find something.

There’s an old saying "a lady in public and a freak in the bed" that’s what every man wants. Watch porn with him (most of the bad acting will make you guys laugh together) and try a few things, who knows what you may find out.

best of luck!
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over reacting
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Get involved.
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Experience

Looks like this girl found a fan! You know your husband likes his porn and obviously he liked this particular girl’s "work". So what? Don’t you have favorite actors and actresses? Favorite types of movies? Well, he does too. It doesn’t have any more "meaning" than my preference for Will Smith over Matt Damon or dramas over romances.

If you really are "totally fine" with your husband watching porn it shouldn’t surprise or bother you that he has a preference for one actress over another - so yes, you’re overreacting. Forget the whole thing ever happened and don’t make it worse by revealing you snooped on his email.
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congratulations….YOU ARE A WINNER….yours is the 3,000,000th question asking strangers if you should be upset about something since they have a better idea on how to monitor your behavior and emotions. additionally, since yours is also the 15,000,000th question dealing with the over tired and true theme of porn you get an all expenses paid trip to lalaland.
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You should be hurt and your feelings are justified, my guess he would have done this with or with out your consent. Modern technology, it’s good and bad we have to know where to draw the line, my ex spent all his time on these web sights, one of many reasons why I divorced him, he had it good, now he lives with his mom and dad, at the age of 58 how sad is this?? Maybe you can talk to him about this problem yes you need to talk to him he can’t read your mind.
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I am also fine with my fiance watching porn, in fact, I watch it with him occassionally; but I can see your concern. I think you need to ask yourself two things: one, have you noticed any changes in your regular sex life, and, two, are you suspicious of things other than the porn-watching business. If you answered "no" to those two questions, then I wouldn’t worry about it too much. Just like we have our favorite actors, he has his favorites, too. Maybe it’s something she does, maybe it’s something about her body, but either way, it’s sexually gratifying…however, it’s no different than a guy liking playboy better than penthouse or choosing one fantasy over another. If I were you, I wouldn’t tell him you snooped (not a good idea), but I would talk to him more about the porn he watches. Maybe you and him could even watch it together, IF that’s something you’d like to try. That way, you feel more included in every aspect of his sex life. Of course, that’s not to say that you have no need to feel concerned or upset - the best thing you can go off is your gut.

I hope this helps calm your nerves. Good luck!
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First of all I think it should be useful for your hubby to know that 97% of the porn sites on the web just go for one thing more than anything. - That is money.

To get guys like your hubby as much involved as possible in order to milk them on money.

Perhaps a good way to confront your hubby is simply to pretend that you have a desire to visit a porn site yourself. - To look on real hunks with huge equipments….

I would be pretty surprised if your hubby would stand the knowledge of having his Princess looking for pleasure on the web pretty long…. and when he confronts you it is time to let him know one thing or two.
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Like any other addiction, it always escalates.

Initially a user may be satisfied viewing soft versions of pornography. Viewed
over time, the level of arousal begins to decline which leads addicts to look for
more explicit materials to maintain the sexual charge they seek. Addicts
understand their actions are shameful and could lead to them to acting out in a
downward spiral. Some may expand their activities to visiting strip clubs,
massage parlors, prostitutes or downloading gay or child pornography. Some
porn sites attempt to become more interactive to further engage them. One big
draw is live women - sites featuring live women on web cams performing very
explicit sexual acts. Others offer posting of nude photos and the ability for a
user to email other women – both locally and out of area.
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